When The Sex Gets Boring.......

Recently I was talking to a male associate about porn, he told me he was ADDICTED....now I was slightly taken aback by his response, knowing that he has a WIFE! How could you be addicted to porn when u have PUSSY readily available at all times!!! I then took to twitter to ask my followers the following question..... "Do you watch porn often even though they have live in pussy?" To my surprise many of their responses were, "YES!!!!" Naturally, my next question was "WHY!".....the number one response I received was...."The sex gets boring!!!!" O_o Men watch porn to escape their mundane sexual realities, satisfying their freaky fantasies with their favorite porn stars! Ladies,Ladies,Ladies......YOU should be your mans personal porn star, their should be no need for him to look else where! beware of allowing your bedroom to become a place of complacency and routine! Often times when we are dating our men, trying to CATCH them, we pull out all the tricks....spontaneous sex, sleeping in the nude, excessive PDA, all the freak shit they see in the pornos, satisfying all their sexual wants and desires!!!! Then after 2 or 3 years of being "TOGETHER" sex becomes predictable down to when, where and how often. The days of wild passionate, fuck till the bed breaks sex are few and far between! What your left with is, obligation sex....you know "Come on...let's do it!" No foreplay, no passion half the time the pussy isn't even wet until 5 pumps in!!! Just "Climb on top and do ya business!" Haha.. Most of us who have been in a long term relationships have hit this stage...at this point two things happen....someone cheats or becomes addicted to porn...or BOTH!!!! Consistency is the key to make any relationship work. If you start your relationship giving toe curling head, and wear those black lace boy shorts u know make his dick stand at attention.....KEEP IT UP! If you surprised him often with sexy lingerie, or trench coat drive byes ....KEEP IT UP!! Don't start slacking on your jobs ladies, that goes the same for you too fellas! Also don't be sooooo closed minded to try new things sexually with your man, introduce toys into your foreplay, let him fuck you in the ass if he ask (at least once). As the old saying goes "What you won't do another women will!" Sorry to break the news to you ladies but HOES are out here WINNING these days! Smooches Jersey!