Who Says Night Life in Philly Is DEAD.....

Well for the past few weeks twitter has been all abuzz with anticipation of this weekends upcoming events.....there has even been some "FIGHTING WORDS" thrown around...... but we are all adults and must keep it cute.  I will be covering all events of the weekend and giving you guys the inside scoop on what goes down.  Up first we have the Speed Dating event I posted last week, the venue has been changed to the REEF on 3rd and South. If you are looking to meet new folks and possibly a new love interest then this is the event for you. Friday, is know as Vault Friday's, which is ALWAYS a good time hosted by my homies The Monstarz (Cee and Black) with special guest DJ Jermaine Dupri!!!! If you are looking for something to do Friday then Vault is THEE place to be!

Saturday.....I myself will be Diddy Boppin my ass off to the tunes of LTTP at the House of Blues in Atlantic City.....if you don't have a ticket to the show, you can definitely hit up the after party at The Chelsea!
Then the MAIN EVENTS are on EASTER SUNDAY......I haven't seen this much buzz around two parties since.......damn I can't even remember! The two parties in question will be held at two of the newest venues in the city.......VAULT (2nd & Spring Garden) and 32/38 (8th & Callowhill), if you haven't been to either of these spots now is the perfect time to go!
Over at 32/38, my boo's Saniyyah and Tanea along with Ms.Cat (Bad Girls Club), Sunday Carter, and some other lovely ladies will be hosting the RUN THIS TOWN MOVIE EXTRAVAGANZA!!!!!........If you are looking for beautiful women, this is the event for you!!SHEESH look at those ladies!

Black of the Monstarz, will be celebrating his birthday at Vault with a few others.....this will be a VERY sexy event.... I'm sure of it, they never dissappoint!

This is sure to be a weekend the city will not forget, I will definitely be making my rounds..... if you see me out make sure you speak! Please keep it cute, keep it classy and let's PARTY!!! Come back next week for all the pics.......

Benefits of the OTHER WOMEN.....

A couple of months ago I wrote a blog entitled "INVASION OF THE JUMPOFF".....however today I am not going to bash the jumpoff, I'm going to give her a voice! There are many of you reading this who hold the title of someones side joint, mistress, other women etc.........and you are completely fine with that! As a matter of fact you would not have it any other way.  There are several benefits to being the OTHER WOMEN......let me break it down to you! First, some women are not looking for a relationship.....they may have had a bad experience or just be hip to men's bullshit! The don't want a man and all the drama that comes with being someones women! They just want someone to fuck them good and keep it moving!! The role of OTHER WOMEN is perfect in this case, you only call this fella when you need him.....sex, change a tire, pay a bill etc... Second, many OTHER WOMEN get the same perks if not MORE the  WIFEY......while wifey is home at 3 am calling his phone back to back, he is laid up at his OTHER WOMEN'S crib. So who is losing????? (just playing devils advocate) The OTHER WOMEN gets trips, money, homes, cars, etc.....without all the headache! If she is being treated like number one without having to actually do all the DIRTY work......why not!  The OTHER WOMEN is also fed HIS story and never the whole story, which keeps her from feeling any sense of remorse for the damage she may be doing to his family situation! She probably wouldn't care either way because she's SELFISH, she is in this situation for her benefit only! She could care less about his women! That is until she wants to be HIS WOMEN......which eventually she will. And that's when it goes down hill......you see the  trick to being the OTHER WOMEN is that you have to keep your affairs short.....the longer you carry on an affair with a man, you are more likely to catch feelings, that when the OTHER WOMEN want's to be the ONLY WOMEN.......that is when shit starts to get out of hand......see "INVASION OF THE JUMPOFF" . If you play your role properly the perks of being the OTHER WOMEN can be great.....however.....you must know how to play the  ROLE you chose .... and stay there......on the side!

Welcome to my SEXROOM......PART 2

As we were walking into the club we ran into another black couple, they looked young like us. Upon entering the club we saw the crowd had picked up, the dance floor was rockin, and sex was in the air... LITERALLY! We were in this ill area that was right near the dance floor but kind of cornered off, the other black couple was in this lil section with us. Will and I started kissing, I felt the eyes of the other couple watching me which turned me on beyond belief.....I kissed Will intensely, biting his lower lip and grabbing the back of his head wanting to taste his tongue. The moans from the other couple caught our attention....the girl was giving him head. You couldn't really tell because of where they were sitting but I could tell. In my mind I'm just like damn, she's sucking him off right here and it's like at a hundred other people in here. Anybody could just come over and watch. Oddly enough that turned me on. Watching them go at it. We moved into a position where we could see them in full view....she had her lips wrapped around his dick, as he guided her head up and down......he then turned her around and entered her from the back!!!! In my mind I’m thinking WHAT THE FUCK...... Watching him bend her over and fuck her from the back right there in the middle of the club had my juices flowing, and quite competitive. Will’s dick was already hard and damn near busting though his jeans, he was trying to pull it our, I just did it for him. I swallowed his dick whole, hungrily like it was my last meal..... right there less than 20 ft from the dance floor where anyone could see me.  When I came up for air I saw I had a slight audience, two White couples were watching. We got up to go find a bathroom and that's when we discovered where all the real action was going on. There was a maze like area with 14 rooms to get it popping in. Every room had a lil window where you could peek into and watch the action. Some couples left the door open like an open invitation for you come in and join them. The first few rooms were empty, as we explored we came to a room where this young perky breast woman was riding this middle-aged fit white guy. He looked up, through the window, he could see us watching him and he started gripping her ass up and fucking her harder. We walked around some more seeing other couples engaging in giving each other head and fucking. The most interesting thing I saw was this foursome. A middle aged black guy was fucking the shit out of this middle aged Asian chick. Both of them had really good bodies. The chick looked like she was in heaven. Right next to them was this hot brunette riding this guy but she was really into the couple next to her, she kept leaning over and sucking on the women’s breast, the guy she was riding was pulling on her hair and guiding her head down further to where her pussy was....The brunette began to give the Asian women head......licking on her clit while massaging on her nipples. There was a lot going on in this room...once again Will and I were turned on..... we were both kind of just going with the flow, not knowing what to expect or even what to do.....could you even have limits in a place like this?? Everyone seemed to have no boundaries. I pushed Will up against the wall, grabbed his dick and started jerking him off. I'm kissing on his neck and flicking my tongue in and out his ear driving him crazy. I whisper in his ear that I want him to cum. He said keep this up and I will. So I kept jerking and wetting his dick up with his pre-cum. People are walking by but we are so into each other that it doesn't even matter if we have an audience. Knowing someone is watching you actually makes you want to go harder and show off. All the stimulation got to Will and he busts a nut right there in the hallway, cum dripping down his dick as people were walking by.  He went and cleaned himself off and we explored around a little bit more. The last room we came across was very mysterious. There was no towel up at the window but the lights weren't on either so you had to look hard to see if it was someone in the room. There were three Black girls in there and they were all giving each other head...... I don't know how we got in the room but another couple and a guy somehow got in there with us. The guy started eating out the one girl from the back. I couldn't really tell what the couple in the corner was doing because it was too dark. First we were just spectators but I soon ended up on the bed with my Will exploring my pussy with his tongue. My moans blended in with the other moans in the tiny room. Will lick every inch of my pussy from front to back.... I was about to explode...then I felt a hand on my breast pinching my nipples, which just intensified the stimulation, but they were not Will's hands, these were the hands of a woman.  The girls had stopped eating each other out and were trying to figure out who was in the room, the on caressing my breast leaned in asking If I ever have a girl eat me out before. I said, "No". She said, "Do you want to try it?"  "Sure!!!" Will made way for this women to taste my love, as she kissed my stomach, softly gripping my thighs, my body responded to her touch, just as she reached my pussy there was a knock on the door...A man said the club was getting ready to close, everyone had to get ready to leave. The girl said, "I got you next time and kissed me softly". Hmmmm will there be a next time... Shout out to ROXANNE for this story!!! Muah!!!

A Man's Point Of View.........

When I received this little story from one of my readers in my INBOX, I couldn't read it completely through without taking a breather......ENJOY!!!!!!!! The art of passionate sex is a lost art. In today’s society many of us are in to just fucking. Whether it’s a quickie, all out rough sex, or spontaneous sex…. the art of passionate lovemaking is almost extinct. Today I’m here to show you the proper way to seduce a woman with passionate love making from foreplay all the way thru the climax and back. Here is a lil story from my sex room of how passionate sex should go down!
I set the room up as she is in the bathroom. As she gets ready, putting on her sexiest fuck me attire, the music plays as the candles burn slow, I grab all the items I need for the night, patiently waiting her arrival back into the bedroom…..she enters. I signal he to come over, her hips sway slowly as she glides in her six-inch heels, matching black bra and boy shorts as I fantasize about touching and tasting every inch of her body. I get behind her move her hair to the side and begin to whisper how I can’t wait to taste her and feel her. I begin to softly kiss and lick on her neck and nibble on her ear. We make our way over to the bed where I lay her on her back. I begin to passionately kiss her as I slightly pin her arms over her head. I make my way to her neck and begin to slowly kiss on her neck again. I can instantly feel her juices flowing after every lick and kiss on her neck. As I'm kissing her neck she begins to undo her bra. I make my way to her nipples, which already stand at attention! I reach over and to grab the bucket of ice and begin to rub the ice around her nipple as I begin to lick and suck on her sexy breast. I alternate to each breast giving each the same attention. As I’m paying attention to her breast I slide my hand down to her clit and begin to massage it with my two fingers. Her body is responding from the soft kisses, her juices are flowing so much that they begin to soak her panties she has on. I taste my fingers from her juices to see if she is ready, and she request to taste her self to so I rub her wet pussy and let her taste her own nectar. I begin to make my way to her panties! I slowly pull her panties off with my teeth as she gazes in my eyes. Once the panties are removed I begin to kiss up her thighs. I spread her legs and begin to slowly French kiss her inner thigh grazing my tongue across her clit to tease her until her body is begging me to taste her. As my tongue made contact with her pussy she let out a releasing moan as I began to lick on her wet soft clit changing speeds from slow to medium to fast to slow to fast to faster! Sucking and spitting on her bald pussy as if I haven't tasted her in months. Her moans meet certain peeks as her legs begin to shake. I continue to eat as I reached over and grabbed her favorite toy her bullet. I then turn her bullet to the highest speed as I began to use my tongue and the bullet at the same time licking, sucking and spitting on her pussy just as she liked it. Her legs began to shake uncontrollably as she climaxed and came all over my tongue. She pulled me up to kiss her to taste her juices off of my lips. She then laid me down and began to give me head. Spitting and sucking and sucking and spitting to get me fully rock hard so she could feel every inch of me when I entered her.

After sucking me until my dick was hard as a rock she was ready to feel me. As 112 Sweet love played in the background I laid her on her back and pulled her to the edge of the bed. With her legs wide open I began to smack my large hard penis on her pussy to make her beg for her dick! With her juices splashing everywhere, from every slapping of my dick, I decided to tease her by just putting the head in! I slowly stroked her as she begged me. I looked in her eyes and said " you want your DICK" she replied "Yes baby I want M..." and before she could finish her words I slid my dick all threw her wet walls. With the anticipation of feeling me I could feel her pussy getting wetter and wetter. I looked in her eyes and began to kiss her as I long stroked her pinning her arms over her head starting off at a slow pace to medium as I kissed on her neck. She started to scratch my back because the feeling was overwhelming, she was cumming back to back to back with every stroke as her legs started to shake again I stopped to begin to suck on her clit because I knew it was an overwhelming feeling for her. I spat on her pussy and reenter her but only this time I had her at the edge of the bed with her legs back with her rubbing her clit with her bullet to make each orgasm more explosive. I started to suck on her toes to send her body to ecstasy. As we change positions again I order her to turn over. And started to taste her from the back. She looked back at me moaning softly and as she arched her back (meeting in my bedroom came on) and said" come get your pussy". I got behind her and began to long stroke her with each stroke her moans became louder and louder, I pulled her hair as I slapped her ass telling her to take all of her dick! She replied I'm taking it baby. I would slightly choke her while fucking her from the back whispering in her ear how wet and tight her pussy was! I pushed her head down smacked her ass tell her to arch her back some more. I held on her hips and said throw my pussy back like u miss me. I began pounding her pussy until she chums some more. I let her taste her cum off of me and I direct her to get on top and ride me till I cum. As I lay on my back I ask her to sit on my face and grind her clit on my tongue. After riding my face for some time she mounts on top of me and begins to ride me. From reverse cowgirl, to cow girl she starts to show off. As I smack her ass every chance I get. She begins to ride me regular pinning my arms over my telling me she wants me to cum. I palm her ass with both hands as she rides fucking at a nice pace I utter "baby I’m cumin" she rides a lil longer tells me to shut up and take this pussy some more! I utter again baby I’m about to cum. she whisper in my ear I want you to cum in my mouth. She hops off and begins to suck the life out of me. My Toes begin to curl and I erupt. She swallows a portion of it and spat the rest out on my semi hard dick slowly stroking with her hand. She looks me in my eyes and says Round 2! I smile and begin start it all over again.
You see the art of passionate sex isn't about rushing it’s about taking the time to explore every part of her body without letting an inch of it be untouched! Touch every part of there body it will respond to you in ways you couldn't imagine.

Kiss From A Rose Speed Dating.......Grown and Sexy Event!!!

Tired of the same ole party scene.....check out this grown and sexy event.....it's a good time with good folks! Lola stamped and approved! Smooches

'Kiss From A Rose' SpeedDating & Mingle Session 04.21.11 from Magnum Med on Vimeo.

Ask LOLA.........As a women how do you go from just FUCKING to being WIFEY?

Well well, I was excited to add the ASK LOLA segment to the blog but had no idea i would get such a quick response.....well one of my loyal readers has a problem and needs our help......
READER: So I've been dealing with this guy. I asked him if it was just a fucking situation, he told me it was a lil more than that, but basically it was just fucking. I'm so confused.... we communicate ALL day everyday. Is there a way to change this from just a FUCKING situation?
LOLA: I don't think you can honestly
Reader: Really?
LOLA: It's like why wife you when he is already fucking the dog shit outta you!!!!
LOLA: As women we get caught in that area and then catch feelings....
LOLA: We have to state our intentions up front so that we can be taken seriously otherwise men will fuck us literally and figuratively as long as we allow them to>>>>>
READER: That's so true!
READER: So at what point do I just leave it alone?
LOLA: You have to be willing to say....."This is what I want, either it's going to be serious or your going to step off!!"
READER: Is that ok to say? We haven't been dealing with each other for that long. I don't want to look like I'm jumping the gun.
LOLA: I understand.... but that's where we as women get caught in the grey area.....we don't wanna seem thirsty
LOLA: Too often we jump into sex really fast.......and it complicates things, I would stop sleeping with him and see if he sticks around.
LOLA: If he's interested in getting to know you then the sex is secondary and you'll know if he's worth it anyway
LOLA: Win win

What do you guys think......can you go from just FUCKING to WIFEY.......help our reader out!

Welcome to my SEX ROOM...... PART 1

A friend of mine lets call her "Kitty".....had a story to tell.....wanna here it.....here it goes......Most of us have fantasized about having someone watch us while we are having sex, the thought of having someone watch as we give oral pleasure.....the adrenaline of being CAUGHT makes our sexual juices flow.....drives us to want to "show off"...but if given the opportunity would you actually do it....I got a text from my friend asking me did I want to go to a "club" tonight. Being that he doesn't go out often I was rather surprised he asked me to go. He said he had never been to the club before, however he did mention it was a SEX club.......a SEX CLUB.....I was down for WHATEVER!
By the time he came to get me I was anxious and unsure what to expect. He briefly told me the rules on the way. No cell phones or cameras. Men had to come with a woman. You had to buy a membership in order to come in, it was BYOB and no one could touch you unless asked.... seemed pretty cut and dry to me. Upon entering the club, I was surprised that it looked like a real "CLUB"...dance floor, bar, music etc..... however, there was porn plying on the big screens. Off to the side there were four rooms that had beds, a futon or a "dentist chair" in them. There was another area that had 2 poles and a stage area for "performances" We were like two kids in a candy store just walking around exploring. Nothing was going on yet but it was very early. Since we didn't have any liquor to calm our nerves we decided to leave, grab some drinks and come back. The closest bar was a strip club...once at the strip club my date asked if I would like a lap dance, of course I said, "Yes"... a lap dance was nothing compared to the rest of the night right?? He told me to pick the girl.... I picked the prettiest girl in there. She had big round breasts and a nice fat ass with the cutest dimples. We sat down on the couch, looking me sensually in the eyes; she's danced for me! My eyes followed every curve of her body, they sway of her hips, as my pussy began to swell.... this women had me open!!! She body rolled up and down my body, pressing her breast against mine. She pushes me further back in the chair and gently kissed my collarbone, putting her breast in my face trying to get me to kiss them. I ran my tongue over her erect nipple.... she moaned with pleasure...my friend held my hand as this woman was seducing me. She caressed me all over...starting with my breasts, then running her hands up and down my thighs, eventually finding her way to my pussy, she began to rub my pussy thru my panties... I’ve never had a lap dance like this before. My pussy was soaking wet.... I could see my friend’s dick growing in his pants as he watched the show. She then focused her attentions on him, she straddled him and began to grind on his dick soooooo hard, he gripped her ass like he wanted to fuck her right then and there......I was sooo turned on by the whole show. Feeling on his chest, she then went done in his jeans to feel up on his rock hard dick. She the simulated like she was giving him head.....he leaned back in pure ecstasy....This was the lap dance of LIFE..... We were more than ready to make our way back to the club...... my nerves we calm, my pussy was wet and I was READY for anything. Before we went back into the club we made up different identities. He was Will from Chicago, an engineer and I was ROXANNE his boss at this engineering firm........what would the night hold for Will and Roxanne.....

It's NEVER Just TWITTER!!!!

It's hard enough having a successful relationship, dealing with everyday events......but social networking has made dating in the new millennium something like a survival sport.....only the truly strong survive! In recent new reports a pastor ordered his entire married congregation to shut down their Facebook pages in an attempt to prevent extramarital affairs! Drastic...I don't think so! Social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter open up a Pandora’s box of temptations that can break even the strongest foundations! People love to throw the line around "It's only Twitter!!!!" "It's only Facebook!" as if actual live people are not connected to these accounts. You would swear by most peoples tweets and status updates that they were "SINGLE AS A DOLLA BILL" when really, they have a whole family, live in girlfriend, boyfriend, etc. How could you possibly have respect for your relationships when you tweet about how much pussy you get, or how many bad bitches are on your dick! *blank stare* Or you flirt with every male that you follow, nine times out of ten people who say, "It's just .......!" are cheating on their significant other.....I would put my life on it! People block their significant other from reading their tweets, or don't follow one another.......why tho? What are your trying to hide? I look at it like this, if you say something online that you can't say in the PRESENCE of your significant other, it should NOT be said! Not only are your disrespecting your relationship, you are publically humiliating the person you claim to love, everyone might not know you’re in a relationship, but SOMEONE does! Why do many get on these social sites, engaging in conversations that can potentially destroy great relationships? ATTENTION, ATTENTION, ATTENTION.....as humans we crave it, the need, the want to feel important. So when you get that Good Morning from 20 different fellas on a day when you may be going through a situation with the one you love.....your ego is boosted, you feel special etc.....and that easy the door is open! Those Good Mornings turn into suggestive compliments, that turn into inbox or dm messages, which turn into let's hook up, next thing you know your ass naked with someone who is not your significant other! OPPS!!!!!!! haaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Moral of the story......it's NEVER "Just Twitter" or "Just Facebook" it gets REAL out here, so be careful! SMOOCHES!!!