Hot Nights, Cool Pussy!

As is lay here, my body is yearning for a cool breeze.....the fan blows over my hot skin, a semi relief!  Looking at the clock twenty minutes have passed since we spoke....he said he would be here in 10.....  Where the hell is he?......My phone vibrates signaling his arrival,  I hear the door shut behind him, my body starts to heave in anticipation for his touch. (It's been awhile) The light creeps in as he opens the door to my bed room....instantly he finds my body under the glow of the light.....he has something in his hands,  I'm not sure what tho....I try to get up and see, but he pushes me back down on the bed and tells me to relax.  He ask permission to blind fold me....of course,, I agree...a little suspense can only help things. At this point we are both naked, but he has all the control.....my body is covered in sweat....he tells me to chill, then I feel it.....he begins to wipe me down with a freezing cold towel.....at first my body quivers at the touch, but the cold is a much needed sensation.....my nipples become erect as he gently circles them with the towel, and blows on each on softly. Careful not to miss a spot, he makes his way from my nipples, to my stomach, next my things, before he makes his way to my legs, he parts my pussy lips and  blows ever so gently and I squeal with anticipation.....he is teasing me! After he wipes me down, the breeze from the fan has every hair on my body at attention, then suddenly I feel droplets of freezing liquid falling over my breast...my back arches in response. Slowly he licks the liquid off of my breast, gently kissing my neck making sure not to miss a spot...I beg his to watch but her refuses my request. He takes my hand and guides it to my pussy and whispers in my ear  "Play with it, baby!" Obliging him, I spread my legs and began to gently massage my clit, my pussy is ridiculously wet (as usual) I find his mouth so he can taste me! He hungrily sucks all my juices from my fingers....then kisses me passionately! I can taste me, mixed with a fruity wine...(so that's what he's pouring on me) he continues to pour the wine over the rest of my body as he licks EACH and EVERY inch! By this time, I wanna rip the blind fold off, but he won't let me! I beg him to enter me....but he won't! He flips me over on my back, I feel the wine poured on the small of my back, and he tells me to spread my legs....I feel his body on mine, his hand reaches between my thighs, playing with my warm wet pussy, and then I feel something extremely cold placed inside my pussy....ICE.....IN my pussy.....it instantly starts to melts, I feel his tongue trying to catch ALL the wetness....as he is licking, sucking every inch of my pussy. I want more,  I throw my pussy back at his face....in response, he grabs my ass as he puts his face deep into my wetness.... I'm fucking his face with  every ounce of energy I have. SHIIITTTTTTT he dines on my pussy until all the ice is melted. I can feel my pussy juices running down my legs.  The heat in the room has intensified from our bodies......he tells me he going to get a towel to wipe off..........in my sexual bliss, I must have passed out. When I awoke I was still blindfolded and he was gone!

Are You Scared of LOVE?

LOVE......I need love, love, I need your love
Love, love, I’ll be here waiting for love...........Yours...
I’ll be here waiting for ........LOVE!!!! As I sat down to write today, Anticipation by Marsha Abrosius  was the first song to play on my iTunes....The feeling and emotion expressed in this 8 bar interlude are beyond powerful. We are all waiting for LOVE.....Anticipating Love.....Love by definition is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Love is what we all crave in some way shape or form. Whether it be from a mother, father, sister, friend, lover etc...we all want and need love! The feeling of  romantic LOVE however, is like no other....it makes us glow, makes our heart smile, make us insane at times!  We get our first taste of this euphoria in our preteen years....also know as PUPPY LOVE!!! From that first hit we are hooked, but somewhere along our life's path our attitude towards LOVE changes. Many will say, "FUCK LOVE, I don't need it or want it!!!" LIES, LIES, LIES......everyone wants to be loved! However, many of us have been so hurt by past relationships, our hearts are so guarded we become our own worst enemy. We have lost the ability to trust, the ability to give people a chance to show us love! Often times we mask this hurt by being promiscuous, womanizers, or becoming serial daters... all in an effort to keep people away from our hearts! Putting up the facade that we don't want anyone special in our lives, when ultimately many crave it, they just don't know how to accept love! We often feel unworthy of love, or we don't love ourselves enough,  therefor making it impossible to love or receive love from someone else!  This feeling of unworthiness is what keeps many people in loveLESS, even abusive relationships,  they feel they don't deserve better!
Marsha said it best in LOSE MYSELF

Couldn't tell me I was in love when I needed it
when, all I ever wanted was love.
should a told me I was worth receiving it
but all I ever wanted was love
there's something awkward about the selflessness it
takes to
give love and the good that it makes you!
true love can never really forsake you
but it took a little while just for me to see!

Loving someone whole heartedly is a scary thing, especially when u see reports of infidelity and betrayal all around you! Once we realize we are worthy of love, we will accept nothing less and weeding out the frauds becomes as easy as breathing!  I urge you to love in spite of....even if your heart is broken, even after you've been lied to or betrayed. Those heartaches are lessons, and you will be stronger for the ONE person who won't hurt you! When you find love embrace it, don't run from it, as you may end up regretting it! Love in spite of.......

Intimacy Vs Intercourse......

Intimacy-a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group. In today's overly sexual, "hit it and quit it" world we live in....it seems that intimacy has been lost. How many of you can actually say you are in a INTIMATE relationship with someone as opposed to just FUCKING them. Or can you remember the last time you actually WAITED to get to know someone before you had sex with them. Many of us, myself included go from meeting someone to sleeping with them in no time flat. Never taking the time to actually form an intimate relationship with them. SEX first, intimacy later.....and we wonder why we go through cycles failed relationships, or get caught in grey area situations that led to nowhere. All the while adding another notch to our bed post. If you look back on your sexual escapades how many of those notches were a waste of your fuckin time. We often confuse sex with intimacy, for years I always equated sex with being intimate.....that was my way of showing someone I REALLY liked them! Needless to say my relationship track record is nothing to be proud of. I have always been blindsided by the dick and let it cloud my judgement! I'm sure I'm not alone.....so what's the alternative? Recently, I saw "Jumping the Broom", the main characters dated for six months and had not had sex...."WHAT" *in my Home Alone Voice* in today's society this is damn near unheard of! YOU ARE DATING AND NOT FUCKING.... HOW DARE YOU? Even if you told people this they probably would not believe you. Now six months may be a little extreme for some, but holding off for just a while can be beneficial in the long run! When we are young we were always told, "If they really like you they will wait to have sex with you!" and we tell our children the same thing.....yet as adults we no longer take heed to our own advice! Ironic isn't it. We think that we are missing something when we take sex out of the equation.  However after having experienced an intimate relationship that does not include intercourse, I can say that INTIMACY is soooooooo much more than intercourse and way more fulfilling. It affords you the opportunity to actually get to know the person you are dealing with. What they like and dislike, what makes them tick. Sometimes we sleep with people and don't even know their real names or that they have a wife and kids! Holding off on sex also allows you to make clear decisions, without thinking about how good your were fucked the night before! Good sex does cloud our judgement at times. Sex also brings in a flood of emotions many are not ready to handle. So what about those sexual urges?  Having a sexual relationship does not always have to include the act of sex. There are other ways to be INTIMATE and SEXUAL with your partner that will allow you to fulfill those sexual urges....one must be creative! This will also bring the two of you closer.  Don't get me wrong sometimes you ONLY just wanna fuck, and hey I'm all for it, but if you're looking to actually build a relationship with someone and you actually LIKE them, try building intimacy before intercourse. SMOOCHES!!!!

In The FLESH......NUDES by MIKE MOGUL!!

I came across the photography of Mike Mogul last year after my cousin suggested I make him a bbm contact.....since then I have been IN LOVE with his work. Mike's photography has many ranges, from fashion, nudes, scenery etc. His nudes are pure ART, I have chosen a few of my faves to share with you all. ENJOY.....if your would like to see more visit.... http://mikemogul.onsugar.com

IN THE FLESH......NUDES by MIKE MOGUL!!

LoLa' s Treats.....And the WINNER IS SHAUNTAE JONES

Shauntae has been following the blog and supporting me  from the beginning, so I am happy that she won the CUSTOM shoes from SHOEicide by Veni!!!!!!......Funny thing is Shauntae didn't even know that there was a contest.....she posted two anonymous comments and I was thinking to myself....this is number 124 and 125....but I didn't know who they where from.....then she hit me on facebook saying "Post my comments" I said, "Those last two were yours?" "YUP!!!" Lucky for her otherwise someone else wool have won....PLEASE LEAVE YOUR NAMES, FAKE OR SOMETHING.....Shauntae has won a custom shoe design valued at $300.00. I will keep you posted on her finished FAB SHOE.....but in the mean time check out http;//www.shoeicidebyveni.com! Stay tuned for the next giveaway....tell a friend to tell a friend. SMOOCHES

Ask LOLA.....3 is ALWAYS better than 2....Threesomes

Dick Delicious(chuckles at name) writes......
Can you write your thoughts on threesomes, then I will request on more subjects!

Dear Dick Delicious,
I myself have NEVER participated in a threesome, however it is on my bucket list of things to do before I leave this great earth, which many believe is Saturday.....*thinks of possible participants* hehehe.....I know many people who have had threesomes and they RAVE about the experience. From a women's point of view, I think threesomes are better had with someone your are not in love with, many people are not able to handle seeing someone they LOVE being intimate and pleasured by someone else. If you recall the episode of The Game... when Melanie, chickened out during their threesome....she just couldn't handle it! You also run the risk of someone liking it a little too much and having one on one contact AFTER the threesome....we don't  need that foolishness. If you have the threesome with someone you are just fucking your mind is free to ENJOY the experience, your are not preoccupied with thoughts of "Does he like her better than me?" "Is her dick suck better than mine?" You are not emotionally invested, so you could care less.... you wouldn't even care if they fucked ALONE. Another important factor in the threesome is selecting the right person. You want someone who will be discrete, sexualy attracted to you and your partner and uninhibited!!! This should be a memorable experience, not something your regret!

What do you guys thinks.....have you had threesomes??? Share your experiences, help Dick Delicious out.....(chuckles at name)

Do Better Blues.....Stay or Leave

"If I could do better..then you could better too. But I don't want better, Cause it only gets better wit you!" I'm sure many of us can relate to this lyric from Jhene Aiko's Do Better Blues.... We feel like the person we are currently with is the end all be all. This type of thinking leads many of us to stay in relationships that are well past their expiration dates. We don't want to let go of time invested, pain endured etc....holding on to the idea that it will get better, however, it never does! Why do we stay, when we clearly know in our hearts the relationship is unrepairable? Many of us stay out of FEAR: FEAR of being ALONE, no one WANTS to spend holidays, birthdays etc alone, so we hold on to the one we know will be there. We need someone to be there on those lonely rainy nights! FEAR of the unknown.... new relationships are scary and they make us vulnerable. We would rather deal with the devil we known than the one's we don't! Many us us don't want to take the chance of being hurt AGAIN. FEAR of being financially unstable, when you own homes, cars, etc it makes if even harder for some to leave a relationship. Many will endure mental, physical, emotional and verbal abuse for financial stability! FEAR of hurting someone we once loved. More often than not the demise of the relationship falls on one party, rarely is it ever mutual! One may fall out of love or be at a turning point in life. We may feel obligated to our partner....how can we hurt them when they've done no wrong? When we stay in relationships that are clearly OVER.... You become IRKED by everything that your partner does....even a "Good Morning Baby" can make your skin crawl....this my lead to infidelity and resentment. "My gut told me STAY or LEAVE"......The struggle many of us go through when we are forced to face the reality that our happily ever after was all an illusion is a hard pill to swallow for most. It can take many months, even years to leave failed relationships, prolonging the inevitable....but does anyone really benefit from this? Knowing what I know now, it's always better to LEAVE than to STAY in a DEAD relationship. You risk losing your identity, becoming stressed, even hating your partner! This can be avoided if you are upfront and honest from the first inkling that the relationship may be over. People may not like the truth but they will always respect it more than a lie. If there are children involved ending a dead relationship is IMPERATIVE, many people make the mistake of "staying together for the children" this logic is far from beneficial for the kids. They have a front row seat to your dysfunctional relationship, children do what they see, not what they are told! What they witness will surely affect their future relationships. If your don do if for yourself, leave for the children!  "In a relationship we want 3 things....EYES that won't CRY, LIPS that won't LIE, LOVE THAT WON'T DIE"....if the relationship your are in is not giving you these three things.....YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!! Photo By Mike Mogul!!

Ask LOLA......HELP....the SEX was THEE WORST!!!!!

Hi all, we have a SEX ADDICT who needs our help......
F. Writes.......
Aight, so this guy has been "diggin" me for a good 8 years. His swag is off the meter. He smells sooo good. His hair is always cut & clean. When he walks I'm sure bishes get wet just by lookin at old buddy. So after all the chosen I finally go out with this pauper & to no avail we had a one night stand. It was theeeee WORST!!! Too much teeth action on the twaat for one. And for two he was a biter. Not a sexy biter but a "bitch get over here" biter. He really needs some sex tips.

He calls like when are we gonna do it again? In my head I'm like never. I shouldve kept things how they were. I mean the sex was a natural disaster. He's well into his 30's & still fuqqin like a rabbit. Where is your stroke? Oh my bad he left it at home on the charger. I think he was banging me so hard & fast lol, I could feel my brain floating.

How do I gently tell this man he needs some lessons in the bedroom?
Thanks

Dear F.,
First, sorry for your BAD experience .....my cooch hurts for you!!!! haaaaa If you are not interested in pursuing it any further....chalk it up as a disaster!!! However, if you are interested in this fella and want to pursue the relationship you can go about it one of many ways......with men you have to be careful not to bruise their egos and handle them with kid gloves at times......you have to make him feel like you are so into him, you want him to please you in all the RIGHT ways!!!! When the two of you are together one night , focus on the technicalities.....ask him what HE likes.... FIRST.....this will boost his ego and makes him believe it's all about HIM!.....have him explain in DETAIL what turns him on, how HE likes his dick to be sucked, what positions he likes, what kind of kisses turn him on! This line of questioning opens up the floor for you to share YOUR likes, hold off on the dislikes or he'll know our referring to him!;) If you like you pussy licked slow, no teeth....tell him this....if you like LOOOOOONNG DEEP STROKES tell him.... When you make it back to the bedroom.....do everything HE likes, asking him "Is this how you like it?"!!!! Now it's YOUR turn.....guide his head to your pussy and tell him HOW to please you....if he starts with the teeth....whisper in his ear the right way as you caress his back (kid gloves) Coach him and reward him when he does it correctly! We can't expect people to KNOW what we like, we have to tell them. If he has gone thru life doing shit the WRONG way.....you have to be the one to STOP it! You have to have at least three of these "COACHING" sessions....before full improvement can be expected! If he is STILL horrible..... drop his ass.... No country for fellas who can't stroke or eat pussy!!!!!
Smooches LOLA

Who Says Night Life in Philly Is DEAD.....

Well for the past few weeks twitter has been all abuzz with anticipation of this weekends upcoming events.....there has even been some "FIGHTING WORDS" thrown around...... but we are all adults and must keep it cute.  I will be covering all events of the weekend and giving you guys the inside scoop on what goes down.  Up first we have the Speed Dating event I posted last week, the venue has been changed to the REEF on 3rd and South. If you are looking to meet new folks and possibly a new love interest then this is the event for you. Friday, is know as Vault Friday's, which is ALWAYS a good time hosted by my homies The Monstarz (Cee and Black) with special guest DJ Jermaine Dupri!!!! If you are looking for something to do Friday then Vault is THEE place to be!

Saturday.....I myself will be Diddy Boppin my ass off to the tunes of LTTP at the House of Blues in Atlantic City.....if you don't have a ticket to the show, you can definitely hit up the after party at The Chelsea!
Then the MAIN EVENTS are on EASTER SUNDAY......I haven't seen this much buzz around two parties since.......damn I can't even remember! The two parties in question will be held at two of the newest venues in the city.......VAULT (2nd & Spring Garden) and 32/38 (8th & Callowhill), if you haven't been to either of these spots now is the perfect time to go!
Over at 32/38, my boo's Saniyyah and Tanea along with Ms.Cat (Bad Girls Club), Sunday Carter, and some other lovely ladies will be hosting the RUN THIS TOWN MOVIE EXTRAVAGANZA!!!!!........If you are looking for beautiful women, this is the event for you!!SHEESH look at those ladies!

Black of the Monstarz, will be celebrating his birthday at Vault with a few others.....this will be a VERY sexy event.... I'm sure of it, they never dissappoint!

This is sure to be a weekend the city will not forget, I will definitely be making my rounds..... if you see me out make sure you speak! Please keep it cute, keep it classy and let's PARTY!!! Come back next week for all the pics.......

Benefits of the OTHER WOMEN.....

A couple of months ago I wrote a blog entitled "INVASION OF THE JUMPOFF".....however today I am not going to bash the jumpoff, I'm going to give her a voice! There are many of you reading this who hold the title of someones side joint, mistress, other women etc.........and you are completely fine with that! As a matter of fact you would not have it any other way.  There are several benefits to being the OTHER WOMEN......let me break it down to you! First, some women are not looking for a relationship.....they may have had a bad experience or just be hip to men's bullshit! The don't want a man and all the drama that comes with being someones women! They just want someone to fuck them good and keep it moving!! The role of OTHER WOMEN is perfect in this case, you only call this fella when you need him.....sex, change a tire, pay a bill etc... Second, many OTHER WOMEN get the same perks if not MORE the  WIFEY......while wifey is home at 3 am calling his phone back to back, he is laid up at his OTHER WOMEN'S crib. So who is losing????? (just playing devils advocate) The OTHER WOMEN gets trips, money, homes, cars, etc.....without all the headache! If she is being treated like number one without having to actually do all the DIRTY work......why not!  The OTHER WOMEN is also fed HIS story and never the whole story, which keeps her from feeling any sense of remorse for the damage she may be doing to his family situation! She probably wouldn't care either way because she's SELFISH, she is in this situation for her benefit only! She could care less about his women! That is until she wants to be HIS WOMEN......which eventually she will. And that's when it goes down hill......you see the  trick to being the OTHER WOMEN is that you have to keep your affairs short.....the longer you carry on an affair with a man, you are more likely to catch feelings, that when the OTHER WOMEN want's to be the ONLY WOMEN.......that is when shit starts to get out of hand......see "INVASION OF THE JUMPOFF" . If you play your role properly the perks of being the OTHER WOMEN can be great.....however.....you must know how to play the  ROLE you chose .... and stay there......on the side!

Welcome to my SEXROOM......PART 2

As we were walking into the club we ran into another black couple, they looked young like us. Upon entering the club we saw the crowd had picked up, the dance floor was rockin, and sex was in the air... LITERALLY! We were in this ill area that was right near the dance floor but kind of cornered off, the other black couple was in this lil section with us. Will and I started kissing, I felt the eyes of the other couple watching me which turned me on beyond belief.....I kissed Will intensely, biting his lower lip and grabbing the back of his head wanting to taste his tongue. The moans from the other couple caught our attention....the girl was giving him head. You couldn't really tell because of where they were sitting but I could tell. In my mind I'm just like damn, she's sucking him off right here and it's like at a hundred other people in here. Anybody could just come over and watch. Oddly enough that turned me on. Watching them go at it. We moved into a position where we could see them in full view....she had her lips wrapped around his dick, as he guided her head up and down......he then turned her around and entered her from the back!!!! In my mind I’m thinking WHAT THE FUCK...... Watching him bend her over and fuck her from the back right there in the middle of the club had my juices flowing, and quite competitive. Will’s dick was already hard and damn near busting though his jeans, he was trying to pull it our, I just did it for him. I swallowed his dick whole, hungrily like it was my last meal..... right there less than 20 ft from the dance floor where anyone could see me.  When I came up for air I saw I had a slight audience, two White couples were watching. We got up to go find a bathroom and that's when we discovered where all the real action was going on. There was a maze like area with 14 rooms to get it popping in. Every room had a lil window where you could peek into and watch the action. Some couples left the door open like an open invitation for you come in and join them. The first few rooms were empty, as we explored we came to a room where this young perky breast woman was riding this middle-aged fit white guy. He looked up, through the window, he could see us watching him and he started gripping her ass up and fucking her harder. We walked around some more seeing other couples engaging in giving each other head and fucking. The most interesting thing I saw was this foursome. A middle aged black guy was fucking the shit out of this middle aged Asian chick. Both of them had really good bodies. The chick looked like she was in heaven. Right next to them was this hot brunette riding this guy but she was really into the couple next to her, she kept leaning over and sucking on the women’s breast, the guy she was riding was pulling on her hair and guiding her head down further to where her pussy was....The brunette began to give the Asian women head......licking on her clit while massaging on her nipples. There was a lot going on in this room...once again Will and I were turned on..... we were both kind of just going with the flow, not knowing what to expect or even what to do.....could you even have limits in a place like this?? Everyone seemed to have no boundaries. I pushed Will up against the wall, grabbed his dick and started jerking him off. I'm kissing on his neck and flicking my tongue in and out his ear driving him crazy. I whisper in his ear that I want him to cum. He said keep this up and I will. So I kept jerking and wetting his dick up with his pre-cum. People are walking by but we are so into each other that it doesn't even matter if we have an audience. Knowing someone is watching you actually makes you want to go harder and show off. All the stimulation got to Will and he busts a nut right there in the hallway, cum dripping down his dick as people were walking by.  He went and cleaned himself off and we explored around a little bit more. The last room we came across was very mysterious. There was no towel up at the window but the lights weren't on either so you had to look hard to see if it was someone in the room. There were three Black girls in there and they were all giving each other head...... I don't know how we got in the room but another couple and a guy somehow got in there with us. The guy started eating out the one girl from the back. I couldn't really tell what the couple in the corner was doing because it was too dark. First we were just spectators but I soon ended up on the bed with my Will exploring my pussy with his tongue. My moans blended in with the other moans in the tiny room. Will lick every inch of my pussy from front to back.... I was about to explode...then I felt a hand on my breast pinching my nipples, which just intensified the stimulation, but they were not Will's hands, these were the hands of a woman.  The girls had stopped eating each other out and were trying to figure out who was in the room, the on caressing my breast leaned in asking If I ever have a girl eat me out before. I said, "No". She said, "Do you want to try it?"  "Sure!!!" Will made way for this women to taste my love, as she kissed my stomach, softly gripping my thighs, my body responded to her touch, just as she reached my pussy there was a knock on the door...A man said the club was getting ready to close, everyone had to get ready to leave. The girl said, "I got you next time and kissed me softly". Hmmmm will there be a next time... Shout out to ROXANNE for this story!!! Muah!!!

A Man's Point Of View.........

When I received this little story from one of my readers in my INBOX, I couldn't read it completely through without taking a breather......ENJOY!!!!!!!! The art of passionate sex is a lost art. In today’s society many of us are in to just fucking. Whether it’s a quickie, all out rough sex, or spontaneous sex…. the art of passionate lovemaking is almost extinct. Today I’m here to show you the proper way to seduce a woman with passionate love making from foreplay all the way thru the climax and back. Here is a lil story from my sex room of how passionate sex should go down!
I set the room up as she is in the bathroom. As she gets ready, putting on her sexiest fuck me attire, the music plays as the candles burn slow, I grab all the items I need for the night, patiently waiting her arrival back into the bedroom…..she enters. I signal he to come over, her hips sway slowly as she glides in her six-inch heels, matching black bra and boy shorts as I fantasize about touching and tasting every inch of her body. I get behind her move her hair to the side and begin to whisper how I can’t wait to taste her and feel her. I begin to softly kiss and lick on her neck and nibble on her ear. We make our way over to the bed where I lay her on her back. I begin to passionately kiss her as I slightly pin her arms over her head. I make my way to her neck and begin to slowly kiss on her neck again. I can instantly feel her juices flowing after every lick and kiss on her neck. As I'm kissing her neck she begins to undo her bra. I make my way to her nipples, which already stand at attention! I reach over and to grab the bucket of ice and begin to rub the ice around her nipple as I begin to lick and suck on her sexy breast. I alternate to each breast giving each the same attention. As I’m paying attention to her breast I slide my hand down to her clit and begin to massage it with my two fingers. Her body is responding from the soft kisses, her juices are flowing so much that they begin to soak her panties she has on. I taste my fingers from her juices to see if she is ready, and she request to taste her self to so I rub her wet pussy and let her taste her own nectar. I begin to make my way to her panties! I slowly pull her panties off with my teeth as she gazes in my eyes. Once the panties are removed I begin to kiss up her thighs. I spread her legs and begin to slowly French kiss her inner thigh grazing my tongue across her clit to tease her until her body is begging me to taste her. As my tongue made contact with her pussy she let out a releasing moan as I began to lick on her wet soft clit changing speeds from slow to medium to fast to slow to fast to faster! Sucking and spitting on her bald pussy as if I haven't tasted her in months. Her moans meet certain peeks as her legs begin to shake. I continue to eat as I reached over and grabbed her favorite toy her bullet. I then turn her bullet to the highest speed as I began to use my tongue and the bullet at the same time licking, sucking and spitting on her pussy just as she liked it. Her legs began to shake uncontrollably as she climaxed and came all over my tongue. She pulled me up to kiss her to taste her juices off of my lips. She then laid me down and began to give me head. Spitting and sucking and sucking and spitting to get me fully rock hard so she could feel every inch of me when I entered her.

After sucking me until my dick was hard as a rock she was ready to feel me. As 112 Sweet love played in the background I laid her on her back and pulled her to the edge of the bed. With her legs wide open I began to smack my large hard penis on her pussy to make her beg for her dick! With her juices splashing everywhere, from every slapping of my dick, I decided to tease her by just putting the head in! I slowly stroked her as she begged me. I looked in her eyes and said " you want your DICK" she replied "Yes baby I want M..." and before she could finish her words I slid my dick all threw her wet walls. With the anticipation of feeling me I could feel her pussy getting wetter and wetter. I looked in her eyes and began to kiss her as I long stroked her pinning her arms over her head starting off at a slow pace to medium as I kissed on her neck. She started to scratch my back because the feeling was overwhelming, she was cumming back to back to back with every stroke as her legs started to shake again I stopped to begin to suck on her clit because I knew it was an overwhelming feeling for her. I spat on her pussy and reenter her but only this time I had her at the edge of the bed with her legs back with her rubbing her clit with her bullet to make each orgasm more explosive. I started to suck on her toes to send her body to ecstasy. As we change positions again I order her to turn over. And started to taste her from the back. She looked back at me moaning softly and as she arched her back (meeting in my bedroom came on) and said" come get your pussy". I got behind her and began to long stroke her with each stroke her moans became louder and louder, I pulled her hair as I slapped her ass telling her to take all of her dick! She replied I'm taking it baby. I would slightly choke her while fucking her from the back whispering in her ear how wet and tight her pussy was! I pushed her head down smacked her ass tell her to arch her back some more. I held on her hips and said throw my pussy back like u miss me. I began pounding her pussy until she chums some more. I let her taste her cum off of me and I direct her to get on top and ride me till I cum. As I lay on my back I ask her to sit on my face and grind her clit on my tongue. After riding my face for some time she mounts on top of me and begins to ride me. From reverse cowgirl, to cow girl she starts to show off. As I smack her ass every chance I get. She begins to ride me regular pinning my arms over my telling me she wants me to cum. I palm her ass with both hands as she rides fucking at a nice pace I utter "baby I’m cumin" she rides a lil longer tells me to shut up and take this pussy some more! I utter again baby I’m about to cum. she whisper in my ear I want you to cum in my mouth. She hops off and begins to suck the life out of me. My Toes begin to curl and I erupt. She swallows a portion of it and spat the rest out on my semi hard dick slowly stroking with her hand. She looks me in my eyes and says Round 2! I smile and begin start it all over again.
You see the art of passionate sex isn't about rushing it’s about taking the time to explore every part of her body without letting an inch of it be untouched! Touch every part of there body it will respond to you in ways you couldn't imagine.

Kiss From A Rose Speed Dating.......Grown and Sexy Event!!!

Tired of the same ole party scene.....check out this grown and sexy event.....it's a good time with good folks! Lola stamped and approved! Smooches

'Kiss From A Rose' SpeedDating & Mingle Session 04.21.11 from Magnum Med on Vimeo.

Ask LOLA.........As a women how do you go from just FUCKING to being WIFEY?

Well well, I was excited to add the ASK LOLA segment to the blog but had no idea i would get such a quick response.....well one of my loyal readers has a problem and needs our help......
READER: So I've been dealing with this guy. I asked him if it was just a fucking situation, he told me it was a lil more than that, but basically it was just fucking. I'm so confused.... we communicate ALL day everyday. Is there a way to change this from just a FUCKING situation?
LOLA: I don't think you can honestly
Reader: Really?
LOLA: It's like why wife you when he is already fucking the dog shit outta you!!!!
LOLA: As women we get caught in that area and then catch feelings....
LOLA: We have to state our intentions up front so that we can be taken seriously otherwise men will fuck us literally and figuratively as long as we allow them to>>>>>
READER: That's so true!
READER: So at what point do I just leave it alone?
LOLA: You have to be willing to say....."This is what I want, either it's going to be serious or your going to step off!!"
READER: Is that ok to say? We haven't been dealing with each other for that long. I don't want to look like I'm jumping the gun.
LOLA: I understand.... but that's where we as women get caught in the grey area.....we don't wanna seem thirsty
LOLA: Too often we jump into sex really fast.......and it complicates things, I would stop sleeping with him and see if he sticks around.
LOLA: If he's interested in getting to know you then the sex is secondary and you'll know if he's worth it anyway
LOLA: Win win

What do you guys think......can you go from just FUCKING to WIFEY.......help our reader out!

Welcome to my SEX ROOM...... PART 1

A friend of mine lets call her "Kitty".....had a story to tell.....wanna here it.....here it goes......Most of us have fantasized about having someone watch us while we are having sex, the thought of having someone watch as we give oral pleasure.....the adrenaline of being CAUGHT makes our sexual juices flow.....drives us to want to "show off"...but if given the opportunity would you actually do it....I got a text from my friend asking me did I want to go to a "club" tonight. Being that he doesn't go out often I was rather surprised he asked me to go. He said he had never been to the club before, however he did mention it was a SEX club.......a SEX CLUB.....I was down for WHATEVER!
By the time he came to get me I was anxious and unsure what to expect. He briefly told me the rules on the way. No cell phones or cameras. Men had to come with a woman. You had to buy a membership in order to come in, it was BYOB and no one could touch you unless asked.... seemed pretty cut and dry to me. Upon entering the club, I was surprised that it looked like a real "CLUB"...dance floor, bar, music etc..... however, there was porn plying on the big screens. Off to the side there were four rooms that had beds, a futon or a "dentist chair" in them. There was another area that had 2 poles and a stage area for "performances" We were like two kids in a candy store just walking around exploring. Nothing was going on yet but it was very early. Since we didn't have any liquor to calm our nerves we decided to leave, grab some drinks and come back. The closest bar was a strip club...once at the strip club my date asked if I would like a lap dance, of course I said, "Yes"... a lap dance was nothing compared to the rest of the night right?? He told me to pick the girl.... I picked the prettiest girl in there. She had big round breasts and a nice fat ass with the cutest dimples. We sat down on the couch, looking me sensually in the eyes; she's danced for me! My eyes followed every curve of her body, they sway of her hips, as my pussy began to swell.... this women had me open!!! She body rolled up and down my body, pressing her breast against mine. She pushes me further back in the chair and gently kissed my collarbone, putting her breast in my face trying to get me to kiss them. I ran my tongue over her erect nipple.... she moaned with pleasure...my friend held my hand as this woman was seducing me. She caressed me all over...starting with my breasts, then running her hands up and down my thighs, eventually finding her way to my pussy, she began to rub my pussy thru my panties... I’ve never had a lap dance like this before. My pussy was soaking wet.... I could see my friend’s dick growing in his pants as he watched the show. She then focused her attentions on him, she straddled him and began to grind on his dick soooooo hard, he gripped her ass like he wanted to fuck her right then and there......I was sooo turned on by the whole show. Feeling on his chest, she then went done in his jeans to feel up on his rock hard dick. She the simulated like she was giving him head.....he leaned back in pure ecstasy....This was the lap dance of LIFE..... We were more than ready to make our way back to the club...... my nerves we calm, my pussy was wet and I was READY for anything. Before we went back into the club we made up different identities. He was Will from Chicago, an engineer and I was ROXANNE his boss at this engineering firm........what would the night hold for Will and Roxanne.....

It's NEVER Just TWITTER!!!!

It's hard enough having a successful relationship, dealing with everyday events......but social networking has made dating in the new millennium something like a survival sport.....only the truly strong survive! In recent new reports a pastor ordered his entire married congregation to shut down their Facebook pages in an attempt to prevent extramarital affairs! Drastic...I don't think so! Social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter open up a Pandora’s box of temptations that can break even the strongest foundations! People love to throw the line around "It's only Twitter!!!!" "It's only Facebook!" as if actual live people are not connected to these accounts. You would swear by most peoples tweets and status updates that they were "SINGLE AS A DOLLA BILL" when really, they have a whole family, live in girlfriend, boyfriend, etc. How could you possibly have respect for your relationships when you tweet about how much pussy you get, or how many bad bitches are on your dick! *blank stare* Or you flirt with every male that you follow, nine times out of ten people who say, "It's just .......!" are cheating on their significant other.....I would put my life on it! People block their significant other from reading their tweets, or don't follow one another.......why tho? What are your trying to hide? I look at it like this, if you say something online that you can't say in the PRESENCE of your significant other, it should NOT be said! Not only are your disrespecting your relationship, you are publically humiliating the person you claim to love, everyone might not know you’re in a relationship, but SOMEONE does! Why do many get on these social sites, engaging in conversations that can potentially destroy great relationships? ATTENTION, ATTENTION, ATTENTION.....as humans we crave it, the need, the want to feel important. So when you get that Good Morning from 20 different fellas on a day when you may be going through a situation with the one you love.....your ego is boosted, you feel special etc.....and that easy the door is open! Those Good Mornings turn into suggestive compliments, that turn into inbox or dm messages, which turn into let's hook up, next thing you know your ass naked with someone who is not your significant other! OPPS!!!!!!! haaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Moral of the story......it's NEVER "Just Twitter" or "Just Facebook" it gets REAL out here, so be careful! SMOOCHES!!!

SHOEicide By Veni

Like most women I am a sucker for a beautiful shoe.... recently I saw the designs of an up and coming designer and thought I would share her talent with you! After all this is Sex, SHOES and Scandal.....haaaa! Venisha "Veni" Gonzalez, 24 yrs young attended Temple University, originally from Norristown PA. She is currently based out of Fort Lauderdale FL. where she started working for Charles Albert Fine Sterling Silver. With no education for jewelry design under her belt, her ambition, talents and impeccable eye for design eye quickly catapulted her from receptionist to Jewelry Designer. Her designs range from simple pendants, rings, and bracelets to larger than life couture pieces also known as the look book collection http://www.charlesalbertlookbook.com/. Her pieces have been seen in; Vogue, Elle, Marie Claire, and on such celebrities as Tyra Banks, Kelly Rowland, Mya, Patti LaBelle, Kim Kardashian and even Nicki Minaj. Knowing every female loves a unique, affordable shoe; Veni was inspired to expand her creative talents from jewelry to SHOES.... She started embellishing her personal shoes with crystals, feathers, spikes & studs. The response from everyday people was amazing. Receiving personal requests for customized shoes, Veni recently decided to launch her website Www.SHOEicidebyveni.com featuring all of her personal shoes for purchase and order! With spring here and summer fast approaching, shoes and accessories are the perfect way to update your wardrobe. Give this young lady some play! She’s DOPE!!!

Jumping in the LAKE!!!!! Dating in 2011

As women we go through stages in our lives, we are faced with many new, interesting experiences....how we face each endeavor says a lot about our character......Dating after a failed relationship or marriage is one of those experiences that can either make or break you. Many women hold off on dating for months even years after a failed relationship.....there is a lot of emotional healing that has to take place, it's also a time for her to find herself, to become ok with being alone. There's is nothing worse than a women jumping from one relationship to the next in the fear of being alone. Potential partners can sense this weakness and will use it to their advantage, therefore perpetuating the cycle of another failed relationship. Children may also play a factor in her reluctance to jump back into the lake, if you are a GOOD parent , you know that you cannot introduce your children to everyone. So what's a gal to do when you do decide to jump back into the lake.... tread lightly, very lightly. If you have been off the dating scene for years, this new dating scene is........umm interesting to say the least! The lake is shark infested and you can be eaten alive if you can't swim.... you have to be able to decipher bullshit at an all time high these days to be successful in this dating game. That's what it is when you sit back and pay attention......a GAME...but why are ADULTS still playing middle school games? Many adults are still stuck with the childhood mentality that less is more....the art of COURTING has been lost...damn near dead, most people just wanna fuck not build lasting relationships! No dates, no morning phone calls to say high, flowers etc. The most you get nowadays is a BBM, text, a dinner maybe, a late night hook up.....then it's over! The borage of tits and ass is at an astronomical high via face book, twitter and many other social networking sites! Hoes are out here winning, making it harder for real women to be taken seriously! Second, most people in the lake are NOT single they just play single on TV, somebody always has somebody they just won't tell you. Then one in every 10 dates is a winner (maybe) You meet someone you like but you won’t tell them, or you won't call for days even though they are on your mind.....Why is it so hard for us to express how we really feel...."If I'm what you want just say it.....don't lie!" Your Hands......to express how you truly feel about someone takes extreme courage, no one wants to feel rejected or as if their feelings are not reciprocated. You are now in a grey area relationship because neither party wants to admit their true feelings....grow up people!!!!! If you decide to swim in the lake, you can get caught in a whirlwind of failed dates, empty sex and grey area relationships.... don't let that deter you from jumping in the lake, there is love out there and you can't find it unless you open yourself up to it.....just be sure that when you find it, you’re are not too jaded to recognize it....too often people don't wanna get played or seem week so they put on airs, however all the fronting and frauding can actually make you miss out on a good thing.

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!!!!!

Recalling the previous nights events.....you think to your self....does this mean I'm gay! You thoroughly enjoyed every lick, every suck.... the taste of wet pussy still lingers on your hands.....but are u gay? Then you ask your self how did this happen? Haaaa you know exactly how this happened......arriving home after a night of drinking and partying, you and your homegirl in drunkin haste u strip down and fall on the bed to pass out.....nothing out of the ordinary right??? Tonight however, things take a slightly different turn.... Sleep is not on the agenda tonight!!! Unsure of who initiates it but your lips meet in a full passionate kiss.....she slides her hands between you thighs and grazes your pussy, now throbing with anticipation!! (She has done this before) she whispers for you to take off your panties and you oblige!!!!!Your mind is racing, but it feels sooooooo good! You take her breast in your mouth, as you tickle her clit!!!! She tells you she wants to taste it!!! Making her way between your thighs.....chills are running through your body!!! Her lips meet your LIPS!!!! Parting them with her tounge..... she makes your body moan with soft cries of pleasure....like only you thought a man could!! As she sucks your clit, slurping up all your sweet nectar, she tell u she wants to lick your ass.....she's a freak and you love every minute of it!! Those soft moans turn into load screams of pleasure.....don't stop you whisper as you grab her head grinding your pussy into her face!!!YES..YESSSSSSSS!!!! Not to be outdone, you make your way into the unknown! Never tasting any other women other than yourself....you don't know what to expect! You take her body in, tasting her with your tounge....using her body as a measure of your performance! Caught up in the whirlwind of what's going on you tell her to sit on your face!!!! Hands griped on her ass as she rides your face, you fuck her with your tongue!!!!! Her pleasure just excites you more!!!! When it's all said and done you both pass out, wake up in the morning like it never even happened! So does having sex with a women make one a Lesbian, I say no!!! I don't even think you can classify yourself as bisexual...just a lil, but true Bisexual women may disagree with me! I think to be truly in that world you have to be comfortable with dating and building a relationships with women, not just sleeping with one. A lot of women who have sex with women can not comprehend the dynamics of being in a RELATIONSHIP with another women. Especially when you are only accustomed to dealing with men!!! Many also would never want the masses to find out that they even enjoy ladies!!! A SEXUAL attraction to women is just that, a SEXUAL attraction! These are just my thought's...... !!!!Smooches

An Orgasm a Day, Keeps The Doctor Away!!!!!

Well well folks its been a long time since we've talked and I damn sure missed yall!!!! Soooo let's talk.....over the last month I've ran across many sexual situations that have left my jaw dropping! So often we discuss the good of sex but what about the bad....recently I was watching a TV show the topic was "Having Your Best Life" after surveying the studio audience, I was in awe to find that most people in relationships only have sex ONCE per week!!!! How does this have anything to do with living your best live, well studies have shown people who have SEX at least three times per week live 3-4 years longer then those who don't!!!!!!!!! I also saw a show about a women who felt dirty when having sex with her HUSBAND! There are so many people who hide their sexual deficiencies, in an attempt to paint a picture normalcy and happiness! Can u believe there are women who don't like to have their pussy ate, how could one not enjoy having someone tickle your clit ever so gently until your juices cover their face! Shit my pussy clinches with just the thought! There are people who don't even enjoy sex for that matter.......women who can go with out sex for MONTHS......voluntarily! I mean we all go thru droughts, but to VOLUNTARILY go without sex! I could not imagine! So I took to twitter and did a little survey myself! One of my followers said that "SEX was over rated and too much work!" another said they have sex maybe "once a month" again I was in awe! We wonder why these HOES be WINNING!!!!!!! If you don"t like sex you should NOT be in a committed relationship, you WILL be cheated on! Not only must you like sex, but you should LOVE it, if you don't LOVE it, you are probably horrible in bed! Sex is a bond between two bodies at the time of intercourse, both bodies in sequence with one another! Hence the term "SEXUAL CHEMISTRY" if there is no electricity between you and your partner the sex become monotonous,a chore you cant wait to finish! So how do you get outta this sexual rut.......Masturbate, touch your pussy, look at it in the mirror, get to know what makes YOU feel good! Then show your partner, guide their hands to the pleasure spots between your thighs. Let them navigate through your wet walls, as they send electrifying chills through your swollen pussy! This should ignite the fire inside of you! Build intimacy.....KISS your partner, too often when we have been in relationships for a long time we stop KISSING our partner, a quick peck when you see one another does not count! Kiss them for 2 minutes everyday, long passionate kisses......like when you first met, gently tugging their bottom lip, breathing the same air, these are the kisses where magic is made, where passion is set a flame, I love kisses!!!!! Lastly, communicate whether it be with your partner or someone outside of your situation! Let them know what your drawbacks in the bedroom are. A healthy sex life is detrimental to your lively hood, orgasms make everyone happy::::::))))))))))