Benefits of the OTHER WOMEN.....

A couple of months ago I wrote a blog entitled "INVASION OF THE JUMPOFF".....however today I am not going to bash the jumpoff, I'm going to give her a voice! There are many of you reading this who hold the title of someones side joint, mistress, other women etc.........and you are completely fine with that! As a matter of fact you would not have it any other way.  There are several benefits to being the OTHER WOMEN......let me break it down to you! First, some women are not looking for a relationship.....they may have had a bad experience or just be hip to men's bullshit! The don't want a man and all the drama that comes with being someones women! They just want someone to fuck them good and keep it moving!! The role of OTHER WOMEN is perfect in this case, you only call this fella when you need him.....sex, change a tire, pay a bill etc... Second, many OTHER WOMEN get the same perks if not MORE the  WIFEY......while wifey is home at 3 am calling his phone back to back, he is laid up at his OTHER WOMEN'S crib. So who is losing????? (just playing devils advocate) The OTHER WOMEN gets trips, money, homes, cars, etc.....without all the headache! If she is being treated like number one without having to actually do all the DIRTY work......why not!  The OTHER WOMEN is also fed HIS story and never the whole story, which keeps her from feeling any sense of remorse for the damage she may be doing to his family situation! She probably wouldn't care either way because she's SELFISH, she is in this situation for her benefit only! She could care less about his women! That is until she wants to be HIS WOMEN......which eventually she will. And that's when it goes down hill......you see the  trick to being the OTHER WOMEN is that you have to keep your affairs short.....the longer you carry on an affair with a man, you are more likely to catch feelings, that when the OTHER WOMEN want's to be the ONLY WOMEN.......that is when shit starts to get out of hand......see "INVASION OF THE JUMPOFF" . If you play your role properly the perks of being the OTHER WOMEN can be great.....however.....you must know how to play the  ROLE you chose .... and stay there......on the side!