Wednesday, August 18, 2010
KEEP YA DICK IN YA PANTS!
In recent months the news has been riddled with headlines of CHEATIN ASS MEN...from Tiger Woods, Jesse James, Swizz Beats, Dawayne Wade,Eric Snow, the list goes on and on and on! Last night I ran into some old "WORK" who happens to be married...I called him over to say "HI", that's it...the conversation quickly turned into a proposition for drinks,etc...you know what the ECT...means....this fool is trying to fuck! Then my homegirl tells me how she received 3 text, from 3 different men, all of whom happen to be married! WHAT THEE FUCK IS GOING ON? Why get married if you still wanna stick your dick in the pool of never ending pussy! Infidelity not only plagues marriages it plagues everyday non married couples as well! How many of you have been cheated on, or are cheating on someone! I see yall!!! If you have to cheat, why are you in a relationship in the 1st place? So I took to google for some stats...and found that 50% of all marrigaes end in divorce, citing COMMUNICATION and INFADELITY as major causes! Well that's noo fuckin surprise....men are known to avoid communication at all cost....when they hear "Let's talk!" They zone the hell out instantly....this lack of communication has a trickling effect that is breaking down families and ulitmatley affecting our children! Let's break it down....Markisha and Steve have an issue, someone is feeling neglected or emasculated, instead of COMMUNICATING with eachother Steve confides to his FB friend, they become friendly and she is now his "refuge" This soon leads to a sexual relationship. Now Steve is trying to jugle home and his side joint and things start to get messy! And if you've ever been cheated on or are cheating on someone...you know what happens when shit gets MESSY, families break up (D.Wade) , kids are born(Eric Snow), stds are spread(Magic Johnson), side joints turn into stalkers or snitches (Tiger Woods), some people have even ended up dead(Steve McNair)! All of these men have children, so how do you explain these situations to children and how do u expect them to respect you when it's all said and done! These situations could have been avoided if a mother fucker knew how to effectively communicate his/her feelings...Not all relationships are meant to last forever, however if you are no longer happy in your relationship....express that to your partner, if you can work it out, do it....if you can't LEAVE! Some of us are just not built for monogamy, if that's you...be honest with the people you deal with, you'll be surprised they may feel the same way as you. Many of us get soo caught up in ourselves we forget about ALL who are effected by our infidelity and lies! Talk to me! Share your thoughts or experience! We ALL have a story!
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truthfully technology aids cheating...people have always cheated...but having this "at hand" technology just speeds up the process! That's why marriages are failing at a higher rate. Just think back 40 years ago when there was no internet or cell phones. You had to be a sharp muthafucka to pull cheating off and it wasn't as easy as it is today. You could text another person while sitting next to your spouse let only receive email messages of naked pics or vids. Keep your dick in your pants is a great title but you also have to shine the light on the females that knowingly fuck with guys who are in a relationship or married. If a wedding band meant you was cut off from all females/males outside your spouse and people actually stuck by it then people wouldn't feel so at ease to cheat. Great topic though!
ReplyDeleteWell written, but it is Completely bias. This is far from well rounded view on this subject. But i guess it's not suppose to be, so I will leave my well rounded $.02 out of it.
ReplyDeleteWow! This was a great read! All of the info is accurate and yes..honest communication is the key to the success of any relationship. But, I agree with the previous comment women are just as much to blame as men. Somen women prey on men in relationships or marriages in an effort to boost their self-esteem...whole time they are simply playing second fiddle and just as you said ruining families...and yes. What about the children? Everyone always says "kids will adapt." And yes they do, but then what! Both men and women need to consider the effects their infedility has on others...especially the kids! What about the kids born from these extracurricular sexual activities...everyone seems to live in the passionate moment!
ReplyDeleteto @ 8:07 yes, this particular post refers mostly to men, because men are more often to be caught cheating! Stay tuned we will discuss all aspects of cheating this week! I got you covered!
ReplyDeleteI think technology helps catch Cheaters! it was easier before technology, before caller i.d, before whitepages.com, now you can look the numbers up that is ringing ya house or partner's cell phone, get the name and address, and use ya GPS to get to their house. Cell phones are the best evidence, call logs tell ya when and how long ya talked. U ask this nigga,"wtf was you tlkin bout for 20mins at 2am? we dn't even talk that long and we live 2gether!" and textin has made it easy 2 get the info u need without breaking a sweat. textin ain't got no face on it, send a text and u dn't know who is really on the receiving end. Social networking sites get people caught up ALL the TIME, posting pictures, then you get the inbox," ur boyfriend is my boyfriend, We need to talk!" If cheaters want 2 prosper they need 2 stop using technology and go underground like the Taliban. Gtta meet the same time, same place, evry week. dn't cll, don't text, dn't email me, and dn't post shit on FB!
ReplyDeleteGreat story! I've been cheated on & cheated as a result. Was I out for the get back, no but he made it that much easier for me to cheat. I am willing to give 100% if I'm getting it back. Ok leaving sounds easy but its been 15yrs now what? Ur right, communication is the key. You make think ur doing evrything but he/she wants more. Cheating is a messy situation....NOthing but LIES! WHAT HAPPENS WHEN U FALL IN LOVE W/HIM/HER? Now ur living two lives & thats when SHIT get real UGLY! IDK JERSEY, this is a tough one....
ReplyDeletesolid point from the last anonymous post...it does help to catch cheaters easier but it also adds the temptation to cheat...you dont have to leave your house to look at ass...you can talk to more women/men @ 1 time. Same time,same place every week isn't classified as "cheating" per-say that's more of an affair or double life...cheating is when you in a relationship and you still moving like you single. well that's how i classify the 2....
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