READER: So I've been dealing with this guy. I asked him if it was just a fucking situation, he told me it was a lil more than that, but basically it was just fucking. I'm so confused.... we communicate ALL day everyday. Is there a way to change this from just a FUCKING situation?
LOLA: I don't think you can honestly
Reader: Really?
LOLA: It's like why wife you when he is already fucking the dog shit outta you!!!!
LOLA: As women we get caught in that area and then catch feelings....
LOLA: We have to state our intentions up front so that we can be taken seriously otherwise men will fuck us literally and figuratively as long as we allow them to>>>>>
READER: That's so true!
READER: So at what point do I just leave it alone?
LOLA: You have to be willing to say....."This is what I want, either it's going to be serious or your going to step off!!"
READER: Is that ok to say? We haven't been dealing with each other for that long. I don't want to look like I'm jumping the gun.
LOLA: I understand.... but that's where we as women get caught in the grey area.....we don't wanna seem thirsty
LOLA: Too often we jump into sex really fast.......and it complicates things, I would stop sleeping with him and see if he sticks around.
LOLA: If he's interested in getting to know you then the sex is secondary and you'll know if he's worth it anyway
LOLA: Win win
What do you guys think......can you go from just FUCKING to WIFEY.......help our reader out!
I agree.. i dont think a woman can go from fucking to wifey.. cuz men dont think that way no one wants to wife a hoe and even though they may like you, care about you, in the end if you havent established those "guidelines" before you started having sex their not gonna take you seriously. and if you take it away most guys are like watever.. i got wat i wanted..
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