Forbidden LOVE........

Forbidden Love.......Someone Posed a question on twitter "What if you met the ONE, but were already in a relationship or married?" ....My response was...if they are truly meant for you, God will make it happen! It may not be when you want it to happen, not today or tomorrow, it may even be ten years from now! If it is for YOU it will be for you! We've all heard stories of lost love that was rekindled years later against all odds! If you are married, how would you find out someone other than your spouse is the ONE, without there being some sort of emotional or physical infidelity! I am not a fan of infidelity because as you have read in previous post....it leads to nothing but hurt or someone being hurt! When we open up our hearts to another we are looking for trouble!!!Yes we may feel that this NEW person is the "ONE", because we are confusing lust and infatuation with love.....often times when this occurs we are in the second cycle of our relationship......Let me explain..... Relationships go thru a cycle....first you have the high that you get with new love..... butterflies, infatuation, phone calls everyday, great sex ect!!!! Next, is the turmoil and strife that many couples go thru, when they tend to get to comfortable and take each other for granted.....it is during this stage that many relationships fall victim to infidelity! Instead of trying to spice things up with your mate, many allow their hearts to go astray! Then you have your third stage...Bliss and contentment....if you are lucky to make it to this stage forsaking all the ups and downs, many realize that their mate is actually EVERYTHING they ever really needed! So I pose the question to those who think they have found the ONE outside of any existing relationship....is it the ONE that will truly stand the test of time! Is it worth losing family and everything you and your significant other have worked so hard to achieve? If you answer is NO, than let it go.....if your answer is YES, than its time to sit someone down for a talk!!!!