Thursday, November 4, 2010

The ART of MAKING LOVE!!!!

I recently posed the question on the blog, Can You MAKE LOVE without actually being IN LOVE??? To my surprise the results were 50/50....I personally think you cannot MAKE LOVE to someone you are not truly IN LOVE with! Before you disagree let me explain.....for me, sexual intercourse can be broken down into two categories. SEX and LOVE MAKING......Sex is what happens between two people who are in extreme like, lust or neither for that matter! Yes, it can be very sensual, there can be lots of foreplay, soft kisses, slow licks, deep penetration everything that good sex is made of. You can also FUCK the shit outta someone!....Hard, wild, hair pulling, back scratching, ass smacking, pussy pounding, shit talking sex!!!! Yes SEX can be AMAZING and MIND BLOWING, however SEX can't compare to the ART of MAKING LOVE......I have had sex with MANY, but only MADE LOVE to few, less than 4 to be exact! I can remember like it was yesterday the first time I MADE LOVE, tears still come to my eyes just like they did that night! Standing there naked in every way, to be IN LOVE is to be NAKED. Falling IN LOVE with someone can for many be something we fight every step of the way, in a effort to protect our hearts, knowing that once IN LOVE we lose all control. NAKED in allowing your heart to be in the hands of another....that by far is one of the scariest things, yet most exhilarating! To be NAKED, standing in front of the one you are madly in love with, staring into each others eyes! When their is genuine love shared between two people, it is electrifying....literally! The touch of the one you love can send chills through your body, your breath becomes heavy with each caress, each touch makes you pussy swell, each touch has your body begging for the next one......eye contact is not broken, you are not just looking into their eyes, you can see their soul!!!! NAKED! OPEN! Finally your lips meet, this is not your ordinary kiss, this is an exchange of love, as you kiss, the very essence of who you are lingers on your partners lips....leaving traces of your love for them to savor at each memory of this night! This dance of intoxicating emotion continues through kissing, caressing, foreplay! Have you ever made love to a penis with you lips??? When IN LOVE you want to leave your love on every part of your partners body! By know you have had multiple orgasm, yet penetration is still on the horizon.....basking in the heat of your bodies, finally you beg for two to become one! When penetration does occur during love making, it is slooooow, the TIP dips inside warm wet walls, your pussy embraces the dick.....it is a perfect fit.....your eyes lock, at this moment every emotion bounces between you two....love, lust, passion, pain, fear, joy,,,it can be truly overwhelming........Your bodies are in rhythm with each other, slow steady strokes, deep penetrating.....you can feel is dick swell as climax is inevitable, the explosion sends your body into uncontrollable shakes and shivers, a tear falls from you eye......you cant believe that THIS IS LOVE AND YOU ARE IN LOVE!!!!

1 comment:

  1. The term "make love" has been used as a soft and PG way to refer to sex. So I can see why people think of it so generically as in sex is sex, so therefore if I'm in love I can have sex (make love) or if I'm not I can have sex (make love).

    I also think of sex in two ways: Sex (fucking is included in this) and making love. When you are in love, sex with your partner (for most people) will certainly be mind blowing. Being in love releases all sorts of hormones into your blood stream which will result in an overall heightened experience. The touch of the person you're in love with is not the same a the touch from the person you're just fucking. The same hormones are released when you're lusting or in deep like, so I definitely can see the argument. The two experiences could easily be interchangeable in regards to "making love".

    Personally, love is a serious matter. A beautiful one, so I don't throw the word around too easily. The way I am intimate with the person I love is and always be an entirely different experience than the sex I'd have with some piece of ass or a fuck buddy. I'm not just having sex with my partner to get off, I'm having sex with my partner to be intimate, to be close to him or her. To create a physical expression of our love; or "make love".

    Good post! I don't think there's a right or wrong for this one, but I'm interested in other views.

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